I attended my very first TBEX, Travel Blogger Exchange, last year in Vancouver. During the conference, I attended a writing workshop where we were assigned homework for the next day. We were instructed to write a short piece, no more than 500 words, on our journey to TBEX2011. Here’s what I wrote:
The rising sun awakens me each day. Even if my eyelids are heavy, they are forced open by the harsh morning light. I blink several times and my eyes wander to that one paint scab on the ceiling, a patch of yellow exposed in a sea of white. “I really need to repaint this room. Maybe that shade of blue that reminds me of the waters of Bermuda,” I think to myself. I push aside the thought and swing my legs off the bed. Other things take precedent. Phone calls, emails, reports, projects. My mind churns out the ticker tape of today’s to-do list at work and I know I will execute these tasks with perfunctory efficiency. I can do this in my sleep.
Today, I am not at home and the light here in Vancouver is different. Perhaps it is a function of the time of day. The afternoon sun casts a warm yellow glow on me as I sit by these windows that are triple my height. It easy to feel connected to the world outside the Convention Centre. There is a Holland America cruise ship docked next door. From here, I see housekeeping staff cleaning the exterior balconies in preparation for the next cycle of passengers. I am reminded me that boats are not meant to be tethered. They are meant to sail.
On year later, in June, I landed in Denver, Colorado to attend TBEX2012. Traveling from sea level to approximately 11,400 feet above sea level in less than 24 hours proved incredibly difficult. I suffered from severe altitude sickness (symptoms included: pounding headaches, loss of appetite, nausea, throwing up, lack of sleep) during the entire conference. It was difficult to focus, learn, and network when I was not on top of my game. Despite this disappointing setback, TBEX 2012 served as a useful benchmark to look back on what I accomplished within the past year. It was also great to catch up with old travel friends and make new ones.
TBEX2011 confirmed what my heart had been telling me for some time: take the leap of faith, leave my office job, and start the path to self-employment. Three months after Vancouver, I followed through with my decision and went to LA to become certified as a Bikram yoga teacher. In the 9 months since I left the comfort of a steady paycheck and amazing benefits, I sometimes get discouraged and berate myself for not being 10 steps ahead of where I currently am. Am I not organized, disciplined, creative, or good enough? James Clark of Nomadic Notes reminded me that this feeling is normal among self-employed people no matter how long they have worked for themselves. “Do you know how many people do what you did?” he asked. “Many people spend their entire lives dreaming and talking about pursuing their passions but almost all of them never do it. The step you took was the biggest and hardest one.” When I catch myself being too hard on me, I remember his sage advice. Thank you James.
It’s been more than a year that I’ve actively blogged under ActionJoJo, focusing on my three main interests: 1) the NYC borough of Queens, the most diverse county in the United States and my home; 2) my travels; and 3) Bikram yoga. Despite these broad topics, I still need to work on branding ActionJoJo. Chris Gray Faust (@CAroundTheWorld) and Janice Waugh (@solotraveler) offered excellent advice in their session “The Branding of You”. They suggested to examine the interests and talents that make you unique. Check. Then, identify your primary niche and focus on it to eventually be considered an expert in your field. Hmmm, must make a decision on what my primary niche is. Develop trust between you, your readers, and sponsors. Working on it by sticking to a regular blog post schedule. Market your brand and benefit from it. Needs work. Set goals and create a strategy to achieve said goals. Needs work.
The picture below inspires me to work through these issues. It was a joy to see fellow travel friends wear t-shirts with my logo on it at TBEX this year!
The path ahead has yet to be defined yet I am excited to come up with creative answers to who ActionJoJo is and what my website strives to be for the world at large. At the very least, I hope people come to know ActionJoJo as someone willing to try new experiences. Despite the altitude sickness, I couldn’t give up the opportunity to ride a mechanical bull for the first time at the Expedia-sponsored, cowboy-themed BBQ dinner. As I climbed onto the machine, a young boy helped me by giving me an important tip: engage the inner thighs and never stop squeezing them together. I was encouraged! As a yoga student, I know how to engage these muscles! I am proud that I managed to stay on that bull for 31 seconds as it spun and bucked.
I suppose riding a mechanical bull is a metaphor for my life right now: get on a ride you want to try, utilize rarely used muscles to make them strong, and get back on or try something else if I get thrown off. For now, I’m going to stay on this ride despite the bucking and spinning. I’m going to learn to flex new muscles, grip tight when I’m about to fall off yet know when to let go when the time is right. My goal? Smile during this whole process and enjoy the ride.